Background continued...
To this end, I got together with some friends, and a bunch of their friends etc. and we decided to buy several of the guides and try them out. I eventually got 28 guys together ranging in age from late teens to early thirties and we bought 10 of the most promising looking guides of various types, prices etc. The results? They were mixed. To my surprise, some of the guides were actually very effective; the best of them almost shockingly effective. However, some were definitely not effective. Some were more useful for the guys of collage age and below, some were useful across all the ages. Several of the guys had weight problems, and they also had some excellent improvement in getting dates and getting laid using some of the techniques. (Not with "top models", as the web sites would have you believe, but at least with some nice 7's and 8's, which was a lot better than they were doing before.)
Ratings and Reviews.
Very Useful Guides. (The ones that consistently produced results.)
Double Your Dating. Well written and highly effective Ebook on the art of seduction. It takes a close look at the psychology of male-female interactions. A lot of the guys really liked it because it helps you get a deeper understanding of why women act the way they do. Once you have this understanding it becomes much easier to know what to say and do to get the responses that you want from women. One advantage to this guide is that once you have the underlying psychological understanding in place, it becomes progressively easier to implement the techniques, because they become based on logic and instinct instead of memorized rules. Having said that, the guide also has lots of step by step and word by word examples of techniques to use as well. The guide comprehensively covers the whole dating process, from how to meet, through to getting sex and maintaining relationships. The techniques worked well across all ages, and produced very good results for most of the guys who tried it. Available as an Ebook. They have temporarily lowered their price from $39.95 to $19.95, and included some good bonus material as well. The course covers a lot of good content for the price. Once you buy the guide they will contact you to attend some of their seminars. (Which are quite pricey.) The guide is comprehensive, there is no need to spend money on the seminars unless you want help practicing the techniques that are already fully explained in the book. To get past the first page of their website you have to enter a first name and an e-mail address; any name and random e-mail address will do. They honor their money-back guarantee. To view their website click here.
The Single Man's Guide To Great Women available at GuyGetsGirl.com. The web site is a bit over the top in it's bold claims, but the bottom line is that the guide is very effective. It is comprehensive, well written and effective across all the age groups. The advice and techniques were also very usable and possible to master for the average person. This was the guide that most helped the guys with weight problems etc., and concentrates on teaching guys how to meet women in low stress situations, and then move them bit by bit from acquaintances to lovers. Contrary to the web site's claims, none of the guys that used this system got much better at quick seductions, but most of them did get a lot better at starting dating relationships and getting sex, if they were willing to invest 2-3 weeks to slowly but surely use the system to nudge women gently towards the sack. Highly effective but takes a bit of patience and perseverance. The regular price is $79.95, but they have promotions from time to time, so you might get it cheaper. Available as online Ebook and they honor their money-back guarantee. To view their website click here.
Real World Seduction 2.0 Very effective and very thorough seduction program that covers both speed seductions and go slow approaches. (Speed seductions meaning seductions within a few hours to a couple of days, and go slow approaches meaning seductions within one to three weeks.) It produced excellent results for all of the guys that gave it a concerted try, and became one of the most popular of all the guides we tried out. What was most impressive was the consistent success of the speed seduction techniques once they were properly mastered. Before trying these techniques we had never really come across a consistently successful speed seduction system, so this was very interesting and quite a revelation. However, you need to be a bit careful with these techniques. They are by definition rather manipulative and although they are quite effective "panty removers" in the short run, some women may be a bit hostile later if they figure out that they've been manipulated. Having said that, the program has tons of very creative and effective techniques that range from aggressive to mild, so you have a choice about how far you want to push things. The course also concentrates on techniques that can generate strong attraction in women independent of your looks or wealth; techniques that worked surprisingly well. The price of the course is a very reasonable $39.95, and best of all, you can test drive it for 7 days for one dollar. They also honor their 60 day money-back guarantee if you don't get the results you were hoping for. To get past the first page of their website you have to enter a first name and an e-mail address; any name and random e-mail address will do. To view their site click here.
Guides that were useful; but had some limitations.
Seduction Science. This guide takes a psychological approach to analyzing how to get women to feel an emotional connection to you. It teaches you how to spark emotions that get them looking at you as something very desirable, so that you become the prize to be won, not them. It outlines a step by step system for generating this attraction, and gives detailed techniques and methods to implement the system. It can be used in a wide variety of circumstances, but many of the techniques require quite a bit of practice. The bottom line results for this guide were good for some guys, but not all. The guys who were already having some success with women saw good improvement, the other guys generally didn't. Available as E-book. It costs $39.99, and they honor their money-back guarantee. To view their web-site click here.
Without Embarrassment: The Social Cowards Totally Fearless Seduction System. The guide is based on the theory that women are attracted to "Dominant Males" and instructs on how to cultivate the traits and behaviors that indicate this status to women. It is an interesting read and has some good pointers on improving your self esteem and being more assertive and confident in other areas of your life as well. Personally I liked the book and got some good techniques and results from the content. However, the over-all results were mixed. Some guys got very good results, but some were not impressed. It seems best suited to the shy, intellectual types. It costs $29.95 for the E-book and they honor their money-back guarantee. To view their web-site click here.
Guides that are Not Recommended.
Hypnotic Seduction. The guide is based on using hypnotic techniques to attract and seduce women. Sounds great in theory, unfortunately the results were not very good for anyone. It has some interesting techniques to try, but was pretty well useless in terms of concrete results. If you are really into hypnosis, mind control, magic spells etc. you might be interested in it I suppose. Available as E-books. It costs $97.99 and they do honor their money-back guarantee. To go to their web site click here.
The Dating Guru's Master Class. The guide covers topics such as how to speak to women, being comfortable around women, how to read their body language, how to chat women up, how to approach women, factors at being successful at dating, how to seduce women, etc. It covers the important topics, but the ideas and techniques were not that great and the bottom line results were only mediocre at best. Most of the guys didn't see much improvement so this seducing guide rated poorly. Available as E-book. It costs $49.95. They honored their money-back guarantee but only with a lot of hassle. To go to their web site click here.
WantaGirl.com. Similar criticism as "Dating Guru's Master Class" above. The dating guide talked about various seducing techniques and tips, but the bottom line results were not very good. Available as online membership subscription. Single payment of $19.95 gets you a membership for life or until the site goes out of business, which ever comes first. Didn't honor their money-back guarantee. To go to their website click here.
Dating Beautiful Women Made Easy. Most of the guys didn't show much improvement with this seduction book. Bottom line results: not worth buying. Available as Ebook. It costs $39.95 and they honored their money-back guarantee. To go to their website click here.
The Ugly Mans Guide To Getting Laid. Written by a couple of collage aged body builders. The techniques may have worked for them, but it didn't yield much improvement for most of the guys in our group. Poor bottom line results. Available as Ebook. It costs $39.97. Didn't honor their money-back guarantee. To go to their website click here.
Well that's it for now. I hope this post has been a bit helpful in separating the wheat from the chafe regarding some of these guides, and can help out a few people looking for a half decent guide of this type.
If you have any suggestions or comments let me know below under " comments ".
posted by Neil Smith at 8:50 PM
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